Forgiveness

     Is it crazy to forgive people who have done horrible things to us? What really does forgiveness mean anyways..... like all it means is that our perspective on that person changes and the colour of the memory bubble inside our head turns from red to green. Or maybe... blue? No mater what that person is still gonna walk around everyday doing the things they wanna do. There's nothing we can do to control that. Not forgiving them only hurts ourselves and does nothing to harm the other person, unless we are persistently committing actions to add struggles to their life. But then they and you are both unhappy. So, it's you or them. I think when we chose to forgive, we are choosing ourselves. We are choosing to be at peace, choosing to be happy. We are not in control. We are in control of our own life but only to a certain extent. I think there is a level of letting go required to be happy. And shifting your focus back onto yourself is the only thing that will make you feel better. You have to forgive them. Forgive them for being brought up wrong or having a shitty day or making the wrong decisions because they hate themselves. I do believe that everyone is doing their best. Maybe that's not 100% accurate. Idk. My best is different from yours. And when their actions are shitty, sometimes it's hard for me to blame them. A lot of things had to brew in their life for those actions to take place, and we alllll know that life is fuckin hard as fuck!!!!!! Like the world is so fucked, so fucked that I guarantee you and I don't even know the half of it. We know like 30% of it. Everyones trying to survive. Don't let people take advantage of you and know when you need to step away and do what best for you. But it's always a favour to yourself to forgive.